Is it sexy or sexist?
A controversial content creator is being criticized after sharing his strict opinions on dating etiquette — including what popular clothing item is the “least feminine” and how he “disciplines” his dates.
Stirling Cooper, a self-proclaimed sex coach, recently appeared on the podcast “Frankifyy” to reveal his seduction and masculinity secrets.
The former adult film star who’s likened to Andrew Tate shared nearly an hour’s worth of divisive commentary but was specifically called out for his “misogynistic” remarks advising men how to set boundaries with women to earn respect.
“I hate when women wear jeans on a date. It’s like the least feminine thing I can think of,” he boldly stated.
“I would say before we meet up ‘don’t wear jeans’. If you wear jeans, I’m going home. Pretty clear.”
Cooper, who frequently touts products he insists will increase penis size and has been accused of being a “red pill pick-up artist,” also draws a hard line with drinking. Cooper said that he will cut women off from ordering more alcoholic drinks than he thinks they should have.
“I will stop a woman from drinking if I think she’s had too much to drink,” Cooper said.
“She’s had one drink. Two drinks. She’s having way too much and then she goes to order another one. I will tell her. I will stop the waiter and be like no you’re not getting her a drink, get her a water instead.”
He went on to say, “It’s kind of like a dad disciplining his daughter in a way.”
Cooper claimed that women have told him the move “was the sexiest thing a guy has ever done,’” for them, but many viewers online did not seem to approve of the “controlling” and “misogynistic” behavior or daddy-daughter comparison.
“I think they probs said it’s the ‘most sexist’ thing a guy has ever done! But he only heard what he wanted to hear, cuz I very much doubt he’s ever listened to a woman,” a person commented.
“He doesn’t like jeans on a date? Well, I don’t like misogyny and daddy-related control issues on a date,” someone said.
“If you’re trying to control what your partner can wear and consume on date 1, I can’t imagine date 2 and beyond..” another responded.
Comedian Sarah Hester Ross responded in a video of her own insisting that Cooper’s statements are a prime example of why society should “stop giving men microphones.”
Cooper’s comments come after Liz Wheeler, a right-wing commentator, made polarizing comments about men’s “least attractive” hobbies.
She ranked the most “unattractive” hobbies for men as: playing video games, collecting figurines and magic tricks.